tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-65830919745705780442024-02-19T10:32:44.765+08:00sutradarasignora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.comBlogger79125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-89205418735642962272009-03-27T06:53:00.000+08:002009-03-27T10:53:51.308+08:00Stupid Taxi Driverthis was my encounter with a very rude and simply obnoxious taxi driver<br><br>yesterday, after work did some marketing. as usual bought milk formula and diapers for my little hero at home. anyway, as some of you know, i work at parkway parade. i hitched a cab (a yellow tab spacewagon kinda cab) to go back home.<br><br>while the apek drove off, i asked him if he had change for $50, and from his reply, i don't think he had any, so i mad a suggestion; for him to send me back to jalan damai, wait awhile while i go up to drop-off the marketing things and fetch my son and then send me off to my mum's place and chai chee road. he kept mum. i asked him whether it was ok for him, cos i had other taxi drivers who really do not like the idea of waiting and sending on transit, and this apek had agreed initially.<br><br>so i reached my home, went up to drop-off the things. aiman was awake, so i then rushed to change his clothes but later found out he poo-ed so i had to wash him up and then change him. after making his drinks i went down to find the taxi driver out of his cab and grumbling.<br><br>he claimed to have wanted to look for me but dunno where i lived (duh!)<br>and he claimed, i said i was going to be minute, but in the end i took almost more than 5minutes. i looked at him then i looked at my son and i looked back at him.<br><br>this was how the conversation went...<br><br><span style="font-weight: bold;">"aiyah you so long one ah! you said 1 minute. now more than 5 minutes already"<br><br>"i told u in advance to wait awhile. i had to go up to get my son ready and change him" </span>(can't he see how small my son is. wat! he expects my son to change himself is it?!"<br><br><span style="font-weight: bold;">"should have told you to pay me first ah. if you run how?"<br><br></span>this time, i was pissed off already. i'm here aren't i?<br><span style="font-weight: bold;">"well i'm here aren't i? i didn't run right? why r u still grumbling?"<br><br>"too many times i kena. i wait people run"<br><br>"i'm not that kind!"<br><br>"how i know?"<br><br>"wey uncle, if u had too many times pple doing this to you, then next time you should not do this transit journeys!"<br><br>"yah! i don't want to do anymore!"<br><br>"</span><span style="font-weight: bold;">anyway, i asked you in advance just now right? i asked u twice some more, can or not? if cannot jus say cannot la!"<br><br></span>then he kept on grumbling<span style="font-weight: bold;"><br></span><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span><br>and i said: <span style="font-weight: bold;">"uncle, just keep quiet la ok? i dont want to argue with you! i tell u ah, your customer service sucks!!!"</span><br><br>and he had the nerve to answer me back, <span style="font-weight: bold;">" i also dont want to argue with you la miss"<br></span><br>i was so pissed off by then<br>even when we alighted from the cab, my son actually said bye bye<br>i pulled aiman away and told him,<span style="font-weight: bold;">" this kind of pple not worth you greet them. very rude!" </span>and i walked away<br><br>i really think that the government should train these taxi drivers some courtesy.<br>come to think of it.. apa? mak bapak dia tak ajar kape?<br><br>kalau aku tau mana2 forum aku bleh make complaint abt memang aku buat punye<br>any of you know how, do update me.<br>i even took down his plate number. pak kal takde nama dia<br><span style="font-weight: bold;">PLATE NUMBER: SGH2238B<br>CAB TYPE: YELLOW TOP MPV<br>TIME: BTW 6.30PM - 7.05PM<br>JOURNEY: FROM PARKWAY PARADE TO JALAN DAMAI TO CHAI CHEE ROAD<br></span><!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-18670151638633538822009-03-25T08:03:00.000+08:002009-03-25T12:03:34.135+08:00Hargailah isteri anda......<span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/ScmsDAoKCD0AADQ4XzA1"><img class="alignleft" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/ScmsDAoKCD0AADQ4XzA1/image001.jpg?et=ODVSiaOTb38VkHDCo8Dbxg&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span><font style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" size="2">Mulianya seorang isteri disisi Allah....<br>Dan betapa berharganya wanita yang bergelar isteri ini pada keluarga, suami dan anak-anak<br></font><p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></p><p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="EC_EC_EC_EC_MsoNormal"><font size="2">Rugi dan binasalah suami-suami yang tidak menghargai isteri mereka <font color="#0000a1"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 161);">kerana isteri inilah yang akan membantu mereka di akhirat kelak.</span></font><br></font></p><p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="EC_EC_EC_EC_MsoNormal"><font size="2">Biarlah buruk mana isteri anda, sayangilah mereka........<br><br>Beruntungnya seorang wanita yg ada rahim ini ialah dia bekerja dengan Tuhan.... jadi 'kilang ' manusia. <br>Tiap-tiap bulan dia diberi cuti bergaji penuh...<br>7 sehingga 15 hari sebulan dia tak wajib sembahyang tetapi Allah anggap diwaktu itu sembahyang terbaik darinya.<br></font></p><p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="EC_EC_EC_EC_MsoNormal"><font size="2">Cuti bersalin juga sehingga 60 hari</font> <font color="navy" size="2"><span style="color: navy;"> ,</span></font><font size="2"> <font color="navy"><span style="color: navy;">Bila dah bersalin tu, susukanlah anak..jgn takut "kendur" atau menggelebeh pulak..</span></font> <font color="navy"><span style="color: navy;"> <br>Si suami pulak, jgn la berebut dgn anak utk menyusu pulak….</span></font><br></font></p><p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="EC_EC_EC_EC_MsoNormal"><font size="2">Cuti ini bukan cuti suka hati tapi cuti yang Allah beri sebab dia bekerja dengan Allah</font> <font color="navy" size="2"><span style="color: navy;">, <br>Tapi bila dah habis cuti tu.. layan lah suami.."offer" lah pada suami ,</span></font> <font color="navy" size="2"><span style="color: navy;"><br>Nabi bersabda : berjimak dgn isteri itu pahala ...jangan buat deekkk jeee,</span></font><font size="2"> </font><font color="navy" size="2"><span style="color: navy;"> Jangan buat alasan itu dan ini pulak…..ingat tu si isteri yee!!!</span></font><font size="2"> </font><font color="navy" size="2"><span style="color: navy;"> Kata nak pahala lebih…</span></font><font size="2"> <br><br>Orang lelaki tak ada cuti dari sembahyang.... sembahyang wajib baginya dari baligh sehingga habis nyawany! a..<br></font></p><p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="EC_EC_EC_EC_MsoNormal"><font size="2">Satu lagi berita gembira untuk wanita, <br></font></p><p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" class="EC_EC_EC_EC_MsoNormal"><font size="2">Sepanjang dia mengandung Allah sentiasa mengampunkan dosanya, <br>Lahir saja bayi seluruh dosanya habis. <font color="#2020a0"><span style="color: rgb(32, 32, 160);"><br>Inilah nikmat Tuhan beri kepada wanita, jadi kenapa perlu takut nak beranak?</span></font> <br><br>Marilah kita pegang kepada tali Allah. <br>Seandainya wanita itu mati sewaktu bersalin, itu dianggap mati syahid, Allah izinkan terus masuk Syurga.<br>Untuk orang </font><font color="navy" size="2"><span style="color: navy;">bukan Islam,</span></font><font size="2"> dia tak dapat masuk Syurga tapi Allah beri kelonggaran siksa kubur. <font color="#2020a0"><span style="color: rgb(32, 32, 160);"> <br>Untuk peringatan semua wanita yang bersuami seluruh kebaikan suaminya, semuanya isteri dapat pahala tetapi dosa-dosa suami dia tak tanggung.</span></font> <br><br>Di akhirat nanti seorang wanita solehah akan terperanjat dengan pahala extra yang banyak dia <font color="#3f8080"><span style="color: rgb(63, 128, 128);">terima diatas segala kebaikan suaminya yang tak disedari. Contohnya bila dia redho suaminya pergi berjemaah di masjid atau ke majlis ilmu, bersedekah.. ganjaran Allah keatasnya jua.</span></font><br><br>Bila dia lihat suaminya tengah terhegeh-hegeh di titian Sirat dia tak nak masuk syuga tanpa suaminya, jadi dia pun memberi pahalanya kepada suami untuk lepas masuk syurga. Di dunia lagi, kalau suami dalam kesusahan isteri boleh bantu tambah lagi di akhirat.<font color="#2020a0"><span style="color: rgb(32, 32, 160);"><br>Kalau seorang isteri asyik merungut, mulut selalu muncung terhadap suami dia tak akan dapat pahala extra ini.</span></font><br><br>Manakala suami pula mempunyai tugas-tugas berat di dalam dan di luar rumah, segala dosa-dosa anak isteri yang tak dididik <br>dia akan tanggung ditambah lagi dengan dosa-dosa yang lain.<br>Dinasihatkan kepada semua wanita supaya faham akan syariat Allah agar ti! dak derh aka denganNya. <br><br>Ses</font><font color="navy" size="2"><span style="color: navy;">u</span></font><font size="2">ngguhnya wanita dijadikan daripada rusuk kiri lelaki. <br>Dia bukan dicipta dari kepala ke kaki,juga bukan dari tapak kaki..<br>Dia dicipta dari sebelah rusuk kiri lelaki supaya dia hampir kepada kamu(lelaki),<br>lengan lelaki dicipta untuk mempertahankan wanita, dekat dengan hati lelaki untuk disayangi.<br><br>Woman was made from the rib of man,<br>She was not created from his head to top him, <br>Nor from his feet to be stepped upon,<br>She was made from his side to be close to him, <br>From beneath his arm to be protected by him,<br>Near his heart to be loved by him. <br><br>"Wahai Tuhan... <br>ku tak layak ke syurgaMu ...<br>namun tak pula aku sanggup ke nerakaMu...<br>kamilah hamba yang mengharap belas dariMu ..... <br><br>"Ya Allah...<br>jadikanlah kami hamba2 Mu yang bertaqwa ...<br>ampunkan dosa2 kami, kedua ibubapa kami, <br>dosa semua umat2 islam yang masih hidup mahupun<br>yang telah meninggal dunia"...... </font> <font color="#0000a1" size="2"><span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 161);"><br><br>Kubur itu gelap, cahayanya ialah Laa Ilaaha IllalLah.. <br>Jika diletakkan langit dan bumi di sebelah dacing, dan kalimah ini di sebelah yang satu lagi, pasti lebih berat lagi nilai kalimah 'Laa ilaaha illalLah' ini. <br>Rasulullah saw bersabda (mafhumnya) : "Wahai manusia! Ucaplah 'Laa ilaaha illalLah', kamu pasti berjaya!" </span></font><font size="2"><br><br>Marilah kita ucapkan kalimah ini: </font><font color="red" size="2"><span style="color: red;"><br>"Laa ilaaha illallah!" x 10 </span></font><font size="2"><br><br>Setelah ucapkannya sebanyak 10 kali, panjangkan/fowardkan email ini kepada sekurang- kurangnya 10 orang rakan-rakan anda. Bayangkan betapa besarnya pahala yang Allah sediakan, hanya untuk usaha kita yang sedikit ini <font! lue="" color="b"><span style="color: blue;"> </span></font!> <br> <br>Wallahua'alam......</font> </p> <!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-60841318056012232442009-03-24T06:43:00.000+08:002009-03-24T10:43:56.385+08:00Wanita Ciptaan Istimewa <ol><li><span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SchIxwoKCD0AAC3OjtQ1"><img class="alignright" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SchIxwoKCD0AAC3OjtQ1/340140105l.jpg?et=mcyY%2Crkm74BA2EbznRPUqQ&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span>Kecantikan seorang wanita ialah terletak sejauh mana ia dapat menahan(menjaga) malunya, sementara kegagahan seorang lelaki ialah terletak sejauh mana ia dapat menahan (menjaga) marahnya.<br><br></li><li>Orang yang membujang adalah orang yang belum menemukan penghibur duka dan dia baru memperolehinya dengan berkahwin.<br><br></li><li>Suami adalah orang yang mencari kebahagiaan hidup dengan menghilangkan sebahagian kemerdekaannya.<br><br></li><li>Wanita menghadapi banyak permasalahan; sebahagian diatasi dengan berkahwin dan sebahagian yang lain diatasi setelah dia masuk ke liang kubur.<br><br></li><li>Mata yang paling indah tetapi juga harus diwaspadai adalah mata kaum wanita.<br><br></li><li>Jangan menyalahkan perasaan isteri anda kerana perasaannya yang terbaik ialah ketika ia menerima anda sebagai suami.<br><br></li><li>Perawan tua ialah wanita yang kehilangan kesempatan menyusahkan seorang lelaki.<br><br></li><li>Yang diinginkan seorang gadis dari dunia ini hanyalah seorang suami, dan apabila ia sudah memperolehinya, ia menginginkan segala- galanya.<br><br></li><li>Wanita bisa memaafkan suatu pengkhianatan suaminya, tetapi dia tidak bisa melupakannya.<br><br></li><li>Kecantikan wanita tidak bererti apa-apa dibandingkan dengan kemuliaan akhlak dan perilakunya.<br><br></li><li>Sebelum kahwin, wanita hafal seluruh jawaban dan sesudah kahwin, ia hafal seluruh pertanyaan.<br><br></li><li>Barangsiapa mengahwini wanita kerana hartanya, maka dia telah menjual kemerdekaannya.<br><br></li><li>Wanita adalah bintang dan pelita bagi lelaki. Tanpa pelita, lelaki bermalam dalam kegelapan.<br><br></li><li>Wanita lebih cepat daripada lelaki dalam menangis dan dalam mengingatkan peristiwa yang menyebabkan dia menangis.<br><br></li><li>Wanita tertawa bila ia mampu dan menangis apabila ia menginginkan sesuatu..<br><br></li><li>Pudarlah kebahagiaan seorang wanita jika ia tidak mampu menjadikan suaminya teman yang termulia.<br><br></li><li>Wanita sangat berlebihan dalam mencintai dan membenci, dan tidak mengenal pertengahannya.<br><br></li><li>Wanita selalu tergolong manusia halus dan lembut sampai saat dia berkahwin.<br><br></li><li>Tidak mungkin seorang lelaki hidup bahagia tanpa didampingi oleh isteri yang mulia.<br><br></li><li>Wanita hidup untuk berbahagia dengan cinta, sementara lelaki mencintai untuk hidup berbahagia.<br><br></li><li>Kebijaksanaan wanita terletak di dalam hatinya.<br><br></li><li>Seorang wanita yang bijaksana menambahkan gula pada kalimatnya setiap kali berbicara dengan suaminya, dan mengurangi garam pada ucapan suaminya.<br><br></li><li>Cincin perkahwinan adalah cincin termahal di dunia, sebab mengharuskan pemberinya mengingatkan harganya setiap bulan tanpa henti.<br><br></li><li>Sesungguhnya tidak ada wanita yang sangat cantik, yang ada ialah kaum lelaki yang sangat lemah bila berhadapan dengan kecantikan.<br><br></li><li>Bagi lelaki, yang terakhir kali mati ialah jantungnya dan bagi wanita adalah lidahnya.<br><br></li><li>Wanita tidak diciptakan untuk dikagumi semua lelaki tetapi sebagai sumber kebahagiaan seorang suami.<br><br></li><li>Pada waktu bertunang, lelaki banyak berbicara dan perempuan mendengarkan. Pada saat perkahwinan, perempuan berbicara dan pengantin lelaki mendengarkan. Sesudah perkahwinan, suami dan isteri banyak berbicara dan para jiran tetangga mendengarkan.<br><br></li><li>Setiap wanita mempunyai dua mata. Adapun wanita yang cemburu berlebihan mempunyai tiga mata. Satu di sebelah kanan, satu di sebelah kiri dan yang ketiga diarahkan kepada suami.<br><br></li><li>Wanita pada umumnya takut akan tiga hal : tikus, munculnya uban dan wanita-wanita cantik yang menjadi saingannya.<br><br></li><li>Isteri yang bersikap jujur dan setia kepada suami meringankan setengah beban kehidupan suaminya.<br><br></li><li>Seorang wanita menghadapi kesulitan apabila ia berada di antara lelaki yang dicintainya dan yang mencintainya.</li></ol><!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-55278954971277063632009-03-23T06:11:00.000+08:002009-03-23T10:11:48.561+08:00WD-40<span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/Scbv0AoKCD0AABYAwpM1"><img class="alignleft" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/Scbv0AoKCD0AABYAwpM1/wd40.jpg?et=wxd5TrVtUcE9DtQ2PSGZkw&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">WD-40 believe it or not!</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">This one's worth printing and hanging up somewhere. Make sure you also read the bottom line!</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">I had a neighbour who had bought a new pickup. I got up very early one Sunday morning and </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">saw that someone had spray painted red all around the sides of this beige truck (for some unknown </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">reason). I went over, woke him up, and told him the bad news. He was very upset and was trying </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">to figure out what to do, probably nothing until Monday morning, since nothing was open.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Another neighbour came out and told him to get his WD-40 and clean it off. It removed the </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">unwanted paint beautifully and did not harm his paint job that was on the truck. I'm impressed! </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">WD-40 who knew?</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Water Displacement #40. <br></span>The product began from a search for a rust preventative solvent and </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">degreaser to protect missile parts. WD-40 was created in 1953 by three technicians at the San Diego</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Rocket Chemical Company. Its name comes from the project that was to find a "water displacement" </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">compound.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">They were successful with the fortieth formulation, thus WD-40.</span><br><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">The Corvair Company bought it in bulk to protect their atlas missile parts. Ken East </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">(one of the original founders) says there is nothing in WD-40 that would hurt you.<br><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">When you read the "shower door" part, try it.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">It's the first thing that has ever cleaned that spotty shower door. If yours is plastic, it works just as </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">well as glass. It's a miracle! Then try it on your stovetop... Voila! It's now shinier than it's ever been.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">You'll be amazed.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Here are some of the uses:</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></font><ol><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Protects silver from tarnishing.</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span></font><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Removes road tar and grime from cars.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Cleans and lubricates guitar strings.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Gives floors that 'just-waxed' sheen without making it slippery.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Keeps flies off cows.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Restores and cleans chalkboards.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Removes lipstick stains.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Loosens stubborn zippers.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Untangles jewellery chains.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Removes stains from stainless steel sinks.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Removes dirt and grime from the barbecue grill.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Keeps ceramic/terra cotta garden pots from oxidizing.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Removes tomato stains from clothing.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Keeps glass shower doors free of water spots.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Camouflages scratches in ceramic and marble floors.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Keeps scissors working smoothly.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Lubricates noisy door hinges on vehicles and doors in homes</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">It removes black scuffmarks from the kitchen floor! Use WD-40 for those nasty tar and scuff marks on flooring.</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">It doesn't seem to harm the finish and you won't have to scrub nearly as hard to get them off.</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Just remember to open some windows if you have a lot of marks.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Bug guts will eat away the finish on your car if not removed quickly! Use WD-40!</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Gives a children's play gym slide a shine for a super fast slide.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Lubricates gearshift and mower deck lever for ease of handling on riding mowers.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Rids kids rocking chairs and swings of squeaky noises.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Lubricates tracks in sticking home windows and makes them easier to open.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Spraying an umbrella stem makes it easier to open and close.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Restores and cleans padded leather dashboards in vehicles, as well as vinyl bumpers.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Restores and cleans roof racks on vehicles.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Lubricates and stops squeaks in electric fans.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Lubricates wheel sprockets on tricycles, wagons, and bicycles for easy handling.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Lubricates fan belts on washers and dryers and keeps them running smoothly.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Keeps rust from forming on saws and saw blades, and other tools.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Removes splattered grease on stove.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Keeps bathroom mirror from fogging.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Lubricates prosthetic limbs.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Keeps pigeons off the balcony (they hate the smell).</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Removes all traces of duct tape.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Folks even spray it on their arms, hands, and knees to relieve arthritis pain.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Florida 's favourite use is: "cleans and removes love bugs from grills and bumpers."</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">The favourite use in the state of New York WD-40 protects the Statue of Liberty from the elements.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">WD-40 attracts fish. Spray a LITTLE on live bait or lures and you will be catching the big one in no time. Also, it's a lot cheaper than the chemical attractants that are made for just that purpose.</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Keep in mind though, using some chemical laced baits or lures for fishing are not allowed in some states.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Use it for fire ant bites. It takes the sting away immediately and stops the itch.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">WD-40 is great for removing crayon from walls. Spray on the mark and wipe with a clean rag.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Also, if you've discovered that your teenage daughter has washed and dried a tube of lipstick with a load of laundry,</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">saturate the lipstick spots with WD-40 and re-wash. Presto! Lipstick is gone!</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">If you sprayed WD-40 on the distributor cap, it would displace the moisture and allow the car to start.</span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Keep a can of WD-40 in the kitchen; it is good for oven burns or any other type of burn.</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">It takes the burned feeling away and heals with NO scarring.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></li></ol><font size="2"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;font-weight: bold;">The basic ingredient is - FISH OIL !!!<img src="http://images.multiply.com/common/smiles/omg.png"></span></font> <!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-19435782172479412932009-03-18T12:43:00.000+08:002009-03-18T16:43:50.686+08:00Bismillah<span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/ScC0LwoKCD0AADR4vTc1"><img class="alignleft" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/ScC0LwoKCD0AADR4vTc1/bismillah.jpg?et=tYSmhxNAzNaxpW9hT8GJWQ&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">BISMILLAH </span>adalah sebutan/nama singkat dari lafaz 'BISMILLAHIR ROHMAANIR ROHIIM' yang bermaksud 'Dengan nama ALLAH Yang Maha Pengasih lagi Maha Penyayang..' </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;font-weight: bold;">KELEBIHAN-KELEBIHAN BISMILLAH </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></font><ol><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Yang pertama ditulis Qalam adalah BISMILLAH. Maka apabila kamu menulis sesuatu, maka tulislah BISMILLAH pada awalnya kerana BISMILLAH tertulis pada setiap wahyu yang Allah turunkan kepada Jibrail.</span></font><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><br><br></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">'BISMILLAH untukmu dan umahmu, suruhlah mereka apabila memohon sesuatu dengan BISMILLAH. Aku tidak akan meninggalkannya sekejap mata pun sejak BISMILLAH diturunkan kepada Adam.' (Hadith Qudsi)</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><br><br></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Tatkala BISMILLAH diturunkan ke dunia, maka semua awan berlari ke arah barat, angin terdiam, air laut bergelora, mendengarkan seluruh binatang dan terlempar semua syaitan.<br><br></span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Demi Allah dan keagunganNya, tidaklah BISMILLAH itu dibacakan pada orang sakit melainkan menjadi ubat untuknya dan tidaklah BISMILLAH dibacakan di atas sesuatu melainkan Allah beri berkat ke atasnya.</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br><br></span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Barangsiapa yang ingin hidup bahagia dan mati syahid, maka bacalah BISMILLAH setiap kali memulakan sesuatu perkara yang baik.<br><br></span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Jumlah huruf dalam BSMILLAH ada 19 huruf dan malaikat penjaga neraka ada 19 ( QS.AL Muddatsir:30).Ibnu Mas ' ud berkata: ' Sesiapa yang ingin Allah selamatkan dari 19 malaikat neraka maka bacalah BISMILLAH 19 kali setiap hari.'<br><br></span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Tiap huruf BISMILLAH ada JUNNAH (penjaga/khadam) hingga tiap huruf berkata, ' Siapa yang membaca BISMILLAH maka kamilah kekuatannya dan kamilah kehebatannya.'</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><br><br></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Barangsiapa yang memuliakan tulisan BISMILLAH nescaya Allah akan mengangkat namanya di syurga yang sangat tinggi dan diampunkan segala dosa kedua orang tuanya.</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><br><br></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Barangsiapa yang membaca BISMILLAH maka akan bertasbihlah segala gunung kepadanya.</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><br><br></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Barangsiapa yang membaca BISMILLAH sebanyak 21 kali ketika hendak tidur, maka akan terpelihara dari gangguan syaitan, kecurian dan kebakaran, maut mendadak dan bala.</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><br><br></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Barangsiapa yang membaca BISMILLAH sebanyak 50 kali di hadapan orang yang zalim, hinalah dan masuk ketakutan dalam hati si zalim serta naiklah keberanian dan kehebatan kepada si pembaca. </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></li></ol><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;font-weight: bold;"></span></font><font style="font-style: italic;" size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br>Sabda Rasulluah, ' siapa </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">yang menyampaikan satu ilmu dan orang </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">yang mengamalkannya maka dia akan </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">beroleh pahala walaupun sudah tiada.... ' </span></font><!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-12627177920612648962009-03-18T05:34:00.000+08:002009-03-18T09:35:00.702+08:00Wanita<font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Assalamu'alaikum wr wb ..</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Sebagai peringatan untuk para wanita dipaparkan suatu peristiwa di suatu Eid, di mana seorang wakil telah dilantik dari kaum wanita untuk bertemu</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">dengan Rasulullah SAW untuk meminta baginda SAW memberi ucapan khusus untuk kaum wanita. Baginda bersetuju dan menyuruh mereka berkumpul di Baabun Nisaa'. Setelah kaum wanita berkumpul, Bilal pergi memanggil Rasulullah SAW. Baginda pun pergi ke sana , dan memberi salam dan memberi tazkirah seperti berikut:</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Assalamu'alaikum, wahai kumpulan/kaum wanita. </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Wahai kaum wanita, aku lihat kamu ini lebih banyak di neraka".</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Seorang wanita lalu bangun bertanya, "Apakah yang menyebabkan yang demikian? Adakah sebab kami ini kufur?' Rasulullah SAW menjawab, "Tidak.</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Bukan begitu. Tetapi ada 2 tabiat kamu yang tidak elok yang boleh menjerumuskan kamu ke dalam neraka:</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></font><ol><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Kamu banyak mengutuk/menyumpah</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span></font><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Kamu kufurkan kebaikan suami."</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></li></ol><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Kemudian baginda SAW mengingatkan supaya :</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></font><ol><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Banyak beristighfar</span></font><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Banyak bersedekah.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></li></ol><font size="2"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;font-weight: bold;">Keterangan:</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Yang dimaksudkan dengan mengutuk/menyumpah ialah seperti contoh di bawah:</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;font-weight: bold;"><br>Contoh 1</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Katakan kita lama menunggu bas. Tetapi bas masih tak kunjung tiba, akibat geram dan marah kita mungkin berkata, "Driver bas ni dah mampus agaknya." Perkataan mampus itu termasuk dalam erti kata menyumpah. Lisan wanita memang terlalu cepat menyumpah. Kadang-kadang pakaian, perkakas rumah, hatta suami pun kena sumpah.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;font-weight: bold;">Contoh 2</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Tengah memasak gas habis. Kita mungkin berkata "Celaka punya gas. Masa ni jugak nak habis." Yang dimaksudkan kufur di sini bukan kufur I'tiqad tetapi bererti tidak mengiktiraf Kebaikan di sini bermaksud tanggungjawab yang telah ditunaikan oleh suami.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Berkaitan dengan hal ini, Rasulullah pernah ditanya oleh seorang suami yang kurang faham apa yang dimaksudkan dengan 'kufurkan kebaikan</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">suami'. Rasulullah SAW berkata, "Tidakkah pernah engkau jumpa, seorang isteri, jika seumur hidup engkau, engkau berbuat baik kepadanya, tetapi di </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">suatu ketika, disebabkan dia tidak mendapat sesuatu yang dia kehendaki, maka dia akan berkata,<span style="font-style: italic;">"Awak ini, saya tak nampak satu pun kebaikan awak"</span> (Terjemahan langsung dari Arab).</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">[Dalam masyarakat kita kata-kata di atas mungkin boleh dikaitkan dengan perkataan seperti berikut: </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;font-style: italic;">"Selama hidup dengan awak, apa yang saya dapat?".][Tak guna sesen pun']</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;font-style: italic;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Rasulullah SAW sambung lagi, 'Mana-mana isteri yang berkata, "Awak ini, saya tak nampak satu pun kebaikan awak", maka akan gugur</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">pahala-pahala amalannya.' Saranan Rasulullah SAW yang seterusnya ialah menyuruh kaum wanita banyak beristighfar dan bersedekah, kerana ia dapat menyelamatkan kita dari 2 perkara yang boleh menjerumuskan kita ke dalam api neraka seperti yang disebutkan tadi.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;font-weight: bold;">Fadhilat beristighfar:</span><br></font><ol><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Sabda Rasulullah SAW : "Siapa yang melazimkan amalan istighfar 70 X sehari, dia tidak akan ditulis sebagai orang yang lupa (nyanyuk)."<br><br></span></font><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Sebelum nyanyuk di hari tua, amalkan sejak muda-muda lagi. Rasulullah SAW menganjurkan kita beristighfar 70 atau 100 kali sehari. Baginda sendiri</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">melakukannya lebih dari 100 X sehari. Adalah diingatkan untuk mencapai target ini, eloklah kita menjadualkan amalan zikir ini dalam </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">amalan-amalan harian kita.<br><br></span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Sabda Rasulullah SAW : "Siapa yang melazimkan amalan istighfar, akan dikeluarkan Allah dari sifat ham dan hazan. Sifat ham bererti gelisah</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">yang tidak menentu yang sering melanda kaum wanita. Sifat hazan bererti berdukacita"</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><br><br></li><li style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Istighfar juga memurahkan rezeki. Jangan dianggap rezeki itu hanya dalam bentuk wang ringgit atau harta benda. Tetapi ia juga termasuk</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">kesihatan, umur, kasih sayang dan anak-anak. Sedekah tidak semestinya dalam bentuk wang ringgit.</span></li></ol><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">Sedekah juga termasuk:</span></span><br style="font-weight: bold;"><ol><li style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Tuturkata/percakapan yang baik. <br>Yang paling utama ialah terhadap keluarga sendiri. Ertinya tidak menyakitkan hati. Inilah rahsianya </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">bagaimana hendak menambat hati suami. Diriwayatkan, Saidatina Khadijah ra, isteri Rasulullah SAW yang pertama, tidak pernah menyinggung hati</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> Rasulullah walau sedikit pun. Sepanjang hayat baginda SAW, hati baginda dipenuhi dengan Khadijah, sehingga sering menyebut nama beliau. Kadangkala </span>hingga menimbulkan perasaan cemburu dikalangan isteri-isteri baginda.<br><br><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Diriwayatkan juga, Jibril as setiap kali selepas memberi wahyu kepada Rasulullah sebelum meminta diri, selalu mengirim salam kepada Khadijah. Suatu hari Rasulullah SAW telah bertanya beliau, dan jawab Jibril, "Khadijahlah satu-satunya perempuan yang Allah SWT berkenan tuturkatanya".<br><br></span></li><li style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Memberi salam.</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><br><br></li><li style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Memaniskan wajah.<br><br>Juga terutamanya kepada ahli keluarga. Rasulullah SAW pernah bersabda,</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Kamu senyum sahaja pun sudah menjadi sedekah." Terdapat juga suatu syair </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Arab yang berbunyi: </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Nak buat baik, sangatlah mudah, Maniskan wajah, lembutkan lidah." <br><br>Maka setelah diberi peringatan oleh Rasulullah SAW marilah kita</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">bertafakkur dan bermuhasabah diri-diri kita. Sekiranya terdapat sifat-sifat buruk yang boleh menjerumuskan kita ke dalam api neraka itu, </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">maka eloklah kita mengubah sikap kita dari sekarang.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></li></ol><font size="2"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;font-weight: bold;">"SAMPAIKANLAH WALAU SEPOTONG AYAT -Sabda Rasulullah SAW"</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></font> <!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-30966492747892048282009-03-04T09:52:00.000+08:002009-03-04T14:52:03.365+08:00Importance of TimeA Story Worth Reading<br><br>Since last night my young son has been unwell. When I got back from Work this evening I decided to take him to hospital despite my exhaustion.<br><br>There were many waiting; perhaps we will be delayed by more than an hour. I took my number and sat down in the waiting room. There were many faces, young and old, but all silent. Some brothers made use of the many booklets available in the waiting room. <br><br>Some of those waiting had their eyes closed, while others were looking around. Most were bored. Once in a while the long silence was broken by a nurse calling out a number. Happiness appears on the one whose turn it is, and he gets up quickly; then silence returns.<br><br>A young man grabbed my attention. He was reading a pocket-sized Qur`an continuously; not raising his head even once. At first I did not think much about him. However, after one hour of waiting my casual glances turned into a deep reflection about his lifestyle and how he utilizes his time. One hour of life wasted! Instead of making benefit of that hour, it was just a boring wait. Then the call for prayer was made. We went to prayer in the hospital's Masjid. I tried to pray close to the man who was reading the Qur'an earlier in the waiting room. <br><br>After the prayer I walked with him. I informed him of how impressed I was of him and how he tries to benefit from his time. He told me that most of our time is wasted without any benefit. These are days that go from our lives without being conscious of them or regretting their waste. He said that he started carrying the pocket-sized Qur`an around when a friend encouraged him to make full use of his time. He told me that in the time other people waste he gets to read much more of the Qur`an than he gets to read either at home or in the masjid..<br><br>Moreover, besides the reward of reading the Qur`an, this habit saves him from boredom and stress.<br><br>He added that he has now been waiting for one and a half hours. Then he asked, when will you find one and a half hours to read the Qur`an? I reflected; How much time do we waste? How many moments of our lives pass by, and yet we do not account for how they passed by? <br>Indeed, how many months pass by and we do not read the Qur`an? I came to respect my companion, and I discovered that I am to stand for account and that time is not in my hand; so what am I waiting for?<br><br>My thoughts were interrupted by the nurse calling out my number; I went to the doctor. But I want to achieve something now. After I left the hospital I quickly went to the bookshop and bought a pocket-sized Qur`an. I decided to be mindful of how I spend the time.<br><br><br><br>Our Prophet (SAW) said; 'Whoever guides or directs to good, then he gets the same amount of blessing (reward) as the one who does it'<br><br>The Prophet (SAW) also said 'Pass on knowledge from me even if it is only one verse' <br><br>Read Quran Regular Basis with translation<br>Worship the creator, not his creations.<br>Dhikr Allah everyday morning & evening.<br>Pray promptly and guide others to pray also.<br>Reach islamic messages to everyone,it's ur duty.<br>Drink or eat only by right hand, left hand used by Shait'an only.<br><br>Please don't waste water and food in your daily life, save for next Generation.<br><!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-69197943814108929412009-03-04T09:02:00.000+08:002009-03-04T14:02:58.998+08:00Signs of a bad babysitter <span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/Sa4ZfQoKCD0AACMgCT81"><img class="alignleft" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/Sa4ZfQoKCD0AACMgCT81/79896196.jpg?et=ATTPXdqmT16d%2BGArNAjYcA&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span>It's not always easy to know whether your child's caregiver is doing the job she's supposed to. To find out, you may have to do some sleuthing. Some parents who suspect something may be amiss <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/4_would-you-use-a-hidden-camera-to-spy-on-your-babysitter_2260.bc" title="">rent surveillance equipment</a>. But it's often possible to tell whether something's wrong without going to that extreme.<br><br>You may have trouble on your hands if:<br><br>• <strong>Your baby isn't happy to see the sitter and has become anxious and withdrawn.</strong> A regular caregiver can never replace Mom or Dad, but a baby needs to trust and love his babysitter. Perhaps your child and caregiver haven't bonded, or the babysitter just isn't providing the kind of warmth and comfort your child needs. As in every human relationship, having the right chemistry is important. (If you suspect something more serious is wrong, educate yourself about the <a href="http://www.babycenter.com/0_recognizing-and-reporting-child-abuse_6064.bc" title="">signs of child abuse</a>.)<br><br>• <strong>Your babysitter seems secretive about how they spent the day.</strong> How your baby and his caregiver spend their time shouldn't be a secret. When you come home, you're probably eager to hear about your child and what happened while you were apart. If your caregiver isn't forthcoming about it, either she's not good at communicating with you or she has something to hide. Even a caregiver whose English is limited should be able to convey the ups and downs of your baby's day, and will understand why you want to know.<br><br>• <strong>Your baby has been in one too many easily avoidable accidents.</strong> A babysitter must keep her eye on your child and know what he's doing at all times to prevent injury. She may be leaving your child unattended as he sleeps or plays.<br><br>• <strong>You notice your requests aren't followed.</strong> Both of you are working together to care for your child, so a caregiver shouldn't act as if she knows more about him and childrearing than you do.<br><br>• <strong>Your babysitter often shows up late.</strong> An undependable caregiver will leave you in the lurch time and time again. Find someone who you know is committed to the job and considerate of your needs. Tardiness and unexplained absences may mean she's unreliable in other ways as well.<br><br>• <strong>Your baby often looks unkempt and dirty.</strong> If your little one's caregiver can't take care of the basics, it may be a sign that she's not on the ball when it comes to meeting your child's needs.<br><br>• <strong>Her stories don't add up.</strong> Never tolerate someone who steals, lies, or deceives you in any way. You have to be able to trust your caregiver for the relationship to work. <!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-47658522815790343242009-03-04T08:16:00.000+08:002009-03-04T13:16:50.925+08:00Apabila kita kejar dunia, Dunia akan lari; Tetapi apabila kita kejar akhirat, Dunia akan mengejar kita<p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Ayat 2 yg cukup bermakna...... </p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Dr.Fadhilah Kamsah menulis …….. </p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Assalammualaikum. ..... </p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Masa saya kecik-kecik dulu,mak selalu sangat suruh saya habiskan belen-belen(sisa-sisa) nasik yang dia makan ...dan pagi-pagi sebelum pergi sekolah,mak akan tuangkan air teh untuk saya minum itu dan macam biasa,mesti ada sikit belen ... tapi taklah everytime secara puratanya seminggu sekali mesti ada mak suruh buat macam itu ... Dan sampailah saya dah besar panjang nie pun situasi ni still berjalan ....either belen makanan mak atau abah ... tapi kalau belen makanan anak-anak memang jadi satu kepantangan bagi mak atau abah untuk habiskan... kami kena habiskan sendiri atau akan dihabiskan oleh adik beradik yang lain ... samada kami perasan atau tidak ....so satu hari itu tergerak nak tanya pasal isu ini kat mak ... </p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Akhirnya mak dedahkan bahawa memang purposely dia buat macam itu sebab itu petua yang dia dapat dari arwah mak mentua dia sendiri ...arwah tok perempuan kami lah sebelah abah ...mak kata,supaya hati anak-anak sentiasa melekat kat mak bapak...dan saya sendiri akui kesannya .....makin umur kita meningkat,hati kita senantiasa belas tengok mak bapak kita yang makin tua itu.. Kalau kena marah ke kena tengking ke memang kami adik beradik diam membisu..jer lah namanya nak menjawab balik memang tak dak walaupun kita tahu yang kita betul dan mak pesan,dah ada anak sendiri esok ...jangan sekali-kali makan lebihan makanan anak... samalah ceritanya ..dan mak kata jugak, pagi-pagi jumaat masa dia bancuh air untuk kami semua,dia akan selawat 3 x dan berdoa semoga kami selamat pergi dan selamat balik ...dan guru saya pesan, antara kesan terbesar bagi ibu bapa yang tidak menunaikan solat maghrib ialah,mereka- mereka ini akan Allah cabut rasa hormat anak terhadap mereka ... solat berjemaahlah dengan anak-anak tiap kali waktu </p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">maghrib .. kalau ada lebih dari sorang anak,suruh sorang azan dan sorang Qiam ... kemudian berganti-ganti bacakan doa lepas solat... ini yang kami sekeluarga amalkan sampai sekarang ... </p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Saya personally memang cukup malu kalau tak sempat solat jamaah maghrib dengan mak abah secara praktiknya,inilah yang paling paling paling berkesan sekali ....tak caya try buat ...solat jamaah dengan anak-anak tiap kali maghrib .... dapat semua waktu lagi baik ...sangat besar 'rahsia' dan peranan dapur rupa-rupanya. ..dan jugak kesan solat jamaah walau hanya bagi waktu maghrib. </p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Apabila kita kejar dunia, dunia akan lari; tetapi apabila kita kejar akhirat, dunia akan mengejar kita". </p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Just to ambil iktibar untuk mendidik diri & family.Usia dunia sudah terlalu hampir ke penghujungnya, terlalu! So,it's good if we can remind each other because in Rasulullah's last sermon, baginda pun did mention that all those who listen to him (on shall pass on his words to others,and those to others again; and may the last </p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">ones understand his words better than those who listen to him directly... Yang baik datang dari Allah & yang kurang itu is from my weaknesses. Do impart this knowledge; you'll lose nothing. </p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Wallahu A'lam... Terima Kasih</p><!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-40179919032492478732009-03-03T10:29:00.000+08:002009-03-03T15:29:45.233+08:00Surah Al-Kausar<span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SazcSwoKCD0AAHwb8Oo1"><img class="alignleft" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SazcSwoKCD0AAHwb8Oo1/10831599.gif?et=EvicnEpUtsMuQOsOrVzmEQ&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Surah ini paling pendek, hanya mengandungi 3 ayat & diturunkan di</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Makkah dan bermaksud sungai di syurga. Kolam sungai ini diperbuat </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">daripada batu permata nan indah dan cantik.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Rasanya lebih manis daripada madu, warnanya pula lebih putih daripada</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">susu dan lebih wangi daripada kasturi.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Surah ini disifatkan sebagai surah penghibur hati Nabi Muhammad </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">s.a.w.kerana diturunkan ketika baginda bersedih atas kematian 2 orang </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">yang dikasihi iaitu anak lelakinya Ibrahim dan bapa saudaranya Abu</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Talib.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Pelbagai khasiat terkandung di dalam surah ini dan boleh kita amalkan:-</span><br><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></font><ol><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Baca surah ini ketika hujan dan berdoa, mudah-mudahan Allah </span></font><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">s.w.t. makbulkan doa kita.</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><br><br></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Jika kita kehausan dan tiada air, bacalah surah ini dan gosok di</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">leher,Insya'Allah hilang dahaga.<br><br></span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Jika sering sakit mata, seperti berair, gatal, bengkak, sapukan air</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">mawar yang sudah dibacakan surah ini sebanyak 10x pada mata.</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><br><br></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Jika rumah dipercayai terkena sihir, baca surah ini 10x,</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">mudah-mudahan Allah s.w.t bagi ilham pada kita dimana letaknya sihir </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">itu.</span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span><br><br></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Jika membacanya 1,000x rezeki kita akan bertambah.</span><br><br></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Jika rajin membacanya, hati kita akan menjadi lembut dan khusyuk</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">ketika menunaikan solat.<br><br></span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></span></li><li><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Jika orang teraniaya dan terpenjara membacanya sebanyak 71x, Allah</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">s.w.t akan memberikan bantuan kepadanya kerana dia tidak bersalah </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">tetapi dizalimi.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></li></ol><font size="2"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Perkara yg baik kita amalkan slalu. </span></font><font style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" size="2" face="Roman"><br></font><font size="2"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></font><font style="font-family: trebuchet ms;" color="#000080" size="2" face="Tahoma">'Sebarkanlah ajaranku walau satu ayat pun' (Sabda Rasulullah SAW) 'Nescaya Allah memperbaiki bagimu amalan-amalanmu dan mengampuni bagimu dosa-dosamu. Dan barangsiapa mentaati Allah dan Rasul-Nya, maka sesungguhnya ia telah mendapat kemenangan yang besar.' <br><span style="font-weight: bold;">(Surah Al-Ahzab:71)</span></font><!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-52529662502179069812009-03-03T10:00:00.000+08:002009-03-03T15:00:08.216+08:00Renungan Berkeluarga<div style="text-align: center;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Bagi yang bujang sesuatu i'tibar</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Bagi yang belum / bakal berkeluarga suatu pelajaran</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Bagi yang berkeluarga perlu mengajar</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Wahai <span style="font-weight: bold;">SUAMI </span>renungkanlah</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Pernikahan atau perkahwinan menyingkap tabir rahsia</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Isteri yang kamu nikahi tidaklah semulia Khadijah</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Tidaklah setaqwa Aisyah</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Tidaklah setabah Fatimah</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Justeru,</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Isterimu hanyalah wanita akhir zaman yang punya cita-cita menjadi solehah..</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Pernikahan atau perkahwinan mengajar kita kewajiban bersama</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Isteri menjadi tanah, kamu langit penaungnya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Isteri ladang tanaman, kamu pemagarnya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Isteri kiasan ternakan, kamu gembalanya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Isteri adalah murid, kamu mursyidnya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Isteri bagaikan anak kecil, kamu tempat bermanjanya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Saat isteri menjadi madu, kamu teguklah sepuasnya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Setika isteri menjadi racun, kamulah penawar bisanya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Seandai isteri tulang yang bengkok, berhatilah meluruskannya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Pernikahan atau perkahwinan menginsafkan kita, perlunya iman dan taqwa</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Untuk belajar meniti sabar dan redho ALLAH s.w.t kerana</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Memiliki isteri yang tak sehebat mana</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Justeru Kamu akan tersentak dari alpa</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Kamu bukanlah Rasulullah s.a.w</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Pun bukanlah Sayyidina Ali Karamallahhuwajhah</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Cuma suami akhir zaman yang berusaha menjadi SOLEH.</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Amin.</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Wahai <span style="font-weight: bold;">ISTERI </span>pula renungkanlah</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Pernikahan atau perkahwinan membuka tabir rahsia</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Suami yang menikahi kamu tidaklah semulia Muhammad s.a.w.</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Tidaklah setaqwa Ibrahim</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Tidak setabah Ayyub</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Tidak segagah Musa</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Apalagi setampan Yusuf</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Justeru Suamimu hanyalah lelaki akhir zaman</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">yang punya cita-cita membangun keturunan yang soleh</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Pernikahan atau perkahwinan mengajar kita kewajiban bersama</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Suami menjadi pelindung, kamu penghuninya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Suami nakhoda kapal, kamu pengemudinya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Suami bagaikan pelakon yang nakal, kamu adalah penonton kenakalannya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Saat suami menjadi raja kamu nikmati anggur singgahsananya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Sekita suami menjadi bisa, kamulah penawar ubatnya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Seandainya suami bengis lagi lancang, sabarlah memperingatkannya</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Pernikahan ataupun perkahwinan mengajarkan kita perlunya iman dan taqwa</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Untuk belajar meniti sabar dan redho ALLAH s.w.t. kerana</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Memilik suami yang tak segagah mana..</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Justeru Kamu akan tersentak dari alpa</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Kamu bukanlah Khadijah yang begitu sempurna di dalam menjaga</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Bukanlah Hajar yang begitu setia dalam sengsara</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Cuma wanita akhir zaman yang berusaha menjadi SOLEHAH</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Amin.</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Justeru itu wahai SUAMI dan ISTERI Jangan menuntut terlalu tinggi</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Seandainya diri sendiri jelas tidak berupaya SUAMI dan ISTERI</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">ingatlah: Mengapa mendambakan isteri sehebat Khadijah</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Andai diri tidak semulia Rasulullah s.a.w.</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Tidak perlu isteri secantik Balqis Andai diri tidak sehebat Sulaiman</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Mengapa mengharapkan suami setampan</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Yusuf Seandai kasih tak setulus Zulaikha</span></font><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Tidak perlu mencari suami seteguh Ibrahim Andai diri tidak sekuat Hajar dan Sarah.</span></font></div><!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-68875847936667130712009-03-02T09:26:00.000+08:002009-03-02T14:26:47.505+08:00Keindahan seorang bernama WANITA<span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Allah berfirman: </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Ketika Aku menciptakan </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">seorang wanita, ia diharuskan untuk </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">menjadi seorang yang istimewa. Aku </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">membuat bahunya cukup kuat untuk </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">menopang dunia; namun, harus cukup </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">lembut untuk memberikan kenyamanan " </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Aku memberikannya </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">kekuatan dari dalam untuk mampu </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">melahirkan anak dan menerima penolakan </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">yang seringkali datang dari anak-anaknya " </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Aku memberinya </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">kekerasan untuk membuatnya tetap tegar </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">ketika orang-orang lain menyerah, dan </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">mengasuh keluarganya dengan penderitaan </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">dan kelelahan tanpa mengeluh " </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Aku memberinya kepekaan </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">untuk mencintai anak-anaknya dalam </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">setiap keadaan, bahkan ketika anaknya </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">bersikap sangat menyakiti hatinya " </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Aku memberinya kekuatan </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">untuk mendukung suaminya dalam </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">kegagalannya dan melengkapi dengan </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">tulang rusuk suaminya untuk melindungi </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">hatinya " </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Aku memberinya </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">kebijaksanaan untuk mengetahui bahwa </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">seorang suami yang baik takkan pernah </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">menyakiti isterinya, tetapi kadang </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">menguji kekuatannya dan ketetapan </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">hatinya untuk berada disisi suaminya </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">tanpa ragu" </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Dan akhirnya, Aku </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">memberinya air mata untuk dititiskan dan </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">ini adalah khusus miliknya untuk </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">digunakan bilapun ia perlukan." </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Kau tahu;kecantikan </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">seorang wanita bukanlah dari pakaian </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">yang dikenakannya, susuk yang ia </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">tampilkan, atau bagaimana ia menyisir </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">rambutnya." </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">"Kecantikan seorang </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">wanita harus dilihat dari matanya, </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">kerana itulah pintu hatinya.. Tempat </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">dimana cinta itu ada." </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Kirimkan ini kepada </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">setiap wanita yang anda kenal hari ini </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">untuk memperingati Wanita. Jika Anda </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">lakukan, sesuatu yang baik akan terjadi. </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Anda akan menambah harga diri wanita! </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Kirimkan msg ini juga </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">kepada kaum lelaki, supaya mereka sedar </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">dan ingat akan kecantikan wanita mereka </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">yang azali.. bukan pada kecantikan </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">luaran semata-mata. Selamilah hati </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">wanita mu.. dan ingat lah... </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Setiap Wanita itu Cantik. </span><!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-88264043449530092082009-02-26T06:08:00.000+08:002009-02-26T11:08:23.350+08:00One Word <ol><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Where is your cell phone? <br>bag</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your significant other? <br>hubby<br></span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> Your hair? <br>wavy</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your mother? <br>arab</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your father? <br>malay</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your favorite place?<br>beach<br></span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your dream last night? <br>forgot</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your favorite drink? <br>lemon-tea</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your dream/goal? <br>dream-home</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">What room you are in? <br>bedroom</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your hobby? <br>graphics</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your fear? <br>"unknown"</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Where do you want to be in 6 years? <br>australia</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Where were you last night? <br>orchard</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Something that you aren't? <br>man</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Muffins? <br>chocolate <br></span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Wish list item? <br>vaio</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Where you grew up? <br>bedok</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Last thing you did? <br>blog</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">What are you wearing? <br>clothes</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your TV? <br>samsung</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your pet(s)? <br>none</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Friends? <br>few</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your life? <br>challenging</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your mood? <br>haywire</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Missing someone? <br>sons</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Car? <br>red</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Something you're not wearing? <br>socks</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your favorite store? <br>this-fashion</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Your favorite color? <br>red</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">When is the last time you laughed? <br>yesterday</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Last time you cried? <br>yesterday</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Who will resend this? <br>anybody</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">One place that I go to over and over? <br>work</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">One person who emails me regularly? <br>nobody</span></font></li><li><font size="2"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">My favorite place to eat? <br>seoul garden </span></font></li></ol> <!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-53276077082727724242009-01-23T12:25:00.000+08:002009-01-23T17:25:40.766+08:00Mendhi in Islam<font size="3"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">extracted from v's blog</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></font><p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="3"><strong><font color="#800080">Q :Assalamu'alaikum wbt, Saya ada satu kemusykilan berkenaan dengan hukum iaitu apakah hukumnya memakai inai yang bercorak dan berukir? Setelah merujuk pada laman web JAKIM, memakai inai yang biasa diharuskan hukumnya. Tetapi bagaimana pula hukum bagi memakai jenis inai yang bercorak dan berukir? Terima kasih. . <br><br>A : Waalaikumussalam, Harus memakai inai bercorak dan berukir seperi corak bunga bagi pengantin perempuan tetapi dengan syarat tidak bercorak haiwan atau benda-benda hidup <br><br>Q :Apakah hukumnya memakai inai berukir seperti trend pengantin sekarang?. <br><br>A : Hukum memakai inai berukir harus bagi wanita,dengan syarat ukiran inai tersebut tidak menyerupai benda-benda hidup.. <br><br><br>Q :Assalamualaikum.Saya ada kemusykilan mengenai pemakaian inai di tangan.Saya seorang pelukis inai(henna) untuk pengantin.Saya ada terbaca artikel bertarikh 8/5/2007 di dalam website ini,pihak JAKIM mengatakan bahawa harus memakai inai di tangan kerana ia bukan menyerupai tatu.Saya juga ada terbaca surat khabar mingguan malaysia bertarikh 10/2/2008 di muka hadapan pemakaian inai ala tatu dilarang.Soalan saya disini,adakah memakai inai yang dilukis di tangan itu diharamkn sama sekali walaupun ia bercorak bunga ( corak arabic) bukan bercorak binatang atau haiwan cthnya seperti gambar yang disiarkan di dalam mingguan malaysia itu.Saya risau selagi tidak mendapatkan kepastian dari pihak JAKIM.Terima kasih . <br><br>A : Waalaikumussalam, memakai inai atau mengukir inai di tangan pengantin perempuan diharuskan dengan syarat bukan bercorak benda-benda hidup.. <br><br>Rujukan: JAKIM<!-- colorc --><!-- /colorc --></font> </strong></font></p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font color="#6600cc" size="3"><strong>Q :Why the different Hukum between henna and tattoo?</strong></font></p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font color="#6600cc" size="3"><strong>A : Henna is a natural substance that does not hinder water from reaching the skin during wudhu' and ghusl. It is also not permanently fixed on the skin, unlike tattoos. Therefore, henna is allowed in Islam. </strong></font></p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font color="#6600cc" size="3"><strong>Rujukan : MUIS</strong></font></p> <p style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><font size="3">So, based on these 2 findings, both from reputable sources, JAKIM + MUIS, wat i concluded is that, as long as we dun draw animals or anything that meyerupai living things, it is not HARAM. But this is only my own conclusion, so my dosa, i tanggung sendirik. The rest of ya, as long as TAK was-was, silakan. </font></p><font size="3"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"></font> <!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-43740459119801239422008-12-26T21:07:00.000+08:002008-12-27T02:07:45.669+08:00How To Minimize Hips <a class="select" href="http://jzbelle.multiply.com/journal/item/45/How_To_Minimize_Hips">Link</a> <!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-36096121245386048352008-12-26T21:06:00.000+08:002008-12-27T02:06:02.035+08:00How To Minimize A Large Stomach <a class="select" href="http://jzbelle.multiply.com/journal/item/47/How_To_Minimize_A_Large_Stomach">Link</a> <!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-77210670959314775152008-12-26T21:04:00.000+08:002008-12-27T02:04:40.757+08:00Choose The Right Neckline <a class="select" href="http://jzbelle.multiply.com/journal/item/46/Choose_The_Right_Neckline">Link</a> <!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-68270577944405635462008-12-11T11:35:00.000+08:002008-12-11T16:35:58.862+08:00Eight Lies of a Mother<span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SUDQMgoKCD0AAG9wHSI1"><img class="alignleft" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SUDQMgoKCD0AAG9wHSI1/82112235.jpg?et=P5N95bAB8A6MpuAOmhOh8g&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">This story begins when I was a child: I was born poor. Often we hadn't enough to eat. Whenever we had some food, Mother often gave me her portion</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">of rice. While she was transferring her rice into my bowl, she would say 'Eat this rice, son! I'm not hungry.'</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">This was Mother's First Lie.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">As I grew, Mother gave up her spare time to fish in a river near our house; she hoped that from the fish she caught, she could give me a little bit</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">more nutritious food for my growth. Once she had caught just two fish, she would make fish soup. While I was eating the soup, mother would sit beside </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">me and eat what was still left on the bone of the fish I had eaten; My heart was touched when I saw it. Once I gave the other fish to her on my</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">chopstick but she immediately refused it and said, 'Eat this fish, son! I don't really like fish.'</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">This was Mother's Second Lie.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Then, in order to fund my education, Mother went to a Match Factory to bring home some used matchboxes which she filled with fresh matchsticks.</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">This helped her get some money to cover our needs. One wintry night I awoke to find Mother filling the matchboxes by candlelight. So I said, 'Mother,</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">go to sleep; it's late: you can continue working tomorrow morning.' Mother smiled and said 'Go to sleep, son! I'm not tired.'</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">This was Mother's Third Lie. </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">When I had to sit my Final Examination, Mother accompanied me. After dawn, Mother waited for me for hours in the heat of the sun. When the bell rang,</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">I ran to meet her. Mother embraced me and poured me a glass of tea that she had prepared in a thermos. The tea was not as strong as my Mother's love. </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Seeing Mother covered with perspiration; I at once gave her my glass and asked her to drink too. Mother said 'Drink, son! I'm not thirsty!</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">This was Mother's Fourth Lie.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">After Father's death, Mother had to play the role of a single parent. She held on to her former job; she had to fund our needs alone. Our family's life was more complicated. We suffered from starvation. Seeing our family's condition worsening, my kind Uncle who lived near my house came to help us solve our problems big and small. Our other neighbors saw that we were poverty stricken so they often advised my mother to marry again. But Mother refused to remarry saying 'I don't need love.'</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">This was Mother's Fifth Lie.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">After I had finished my studies and gotten a job, it was time for my old Mother to retire but she carried on going to the market every morning just </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">to sell a few vegetables. I kept sending her money but she was steadfast and even sent the money back to me. She said, 'I have enough money.'</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">That was Mother's Sixth Lie.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">I continued my part-time studies for my Master's Degree. Funded by the American Corporation for which I worked, I succeeded in my studies.</span> <span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">With a big jump in my salary, I decided to bring Mother to enjoy life in America but Mother didn't want to bother her son; she said to me 'I'm not </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">used to high living.'</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">That was Mother's Seventh Lie.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">In her dotage, Mother was attacked by cancer and had to be hospitalized. Now living far across the ocean, I went home to visit Mother who was </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">bedridden after an operation. Mother tried to smile but I was heartbroken because she was so thin and feeble but Mother said, 'Don't cry, son! I'm </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">not in pain.'</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">That was Mother's Eighth Lie.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Telling me this, her eighth lie, she died.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">YES, MOTHER WAS AN ANGEL!</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">M - O - T - H - E - R</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">'M' is for the Million things she gave me </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">'O' means Only that she's growing old </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">'T' is for the Tears she shed to save me </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">'H' is for her Heart of gold </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">'E' is for her Eyes with love-light shining in them </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">'R' means Right, and right she'll always be! </span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">Put them all together, they spell 'MOTHER' a word that means the world to me.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">For those of you who are lucky to be still blessed with your Mom's presence on Earth, this story is beautiful. For those who aren't so blessed, this </span><span style="font-family: trebuchet ms;">is even more beautiful.</span><br style="font-family: trebuchet ms;"> <!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-11378111197578968632008-11-18T22:05:00.000+08:002008-11-19T03:05:35.626+08:00Blonde at a Traffic Signal<a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRZAoKCD0AACNtUUk1"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRhwoKCD0AAC@Ob981"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRkwoKCD0AACFPQZY1"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRnAoKCD0AACd8VZg1"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRowoKCD0AAC-vdRc1"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRrQoKCD0AACkcXvw1"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRtgoKCD0AACN9Uzc1"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRxgoKCD0AAClnYLI1"><span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRzgoKCD0AAC7Xatg1"><img class="alignmiddleb" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SSMRzgoKCD0AAC7Xatg1/ATT9820442.jpg?et=3l4vpku2tAlgcXwUVXyeIQ&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span></a><span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRxgoKCD0AAClnYLI1"><img class="alignmiddleb" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SSMRxgoKCD0AAClnYLI1/ATT9820443.jpg?et=pnX2elF0D3aiqnPEIu1Zeg&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span></a><span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRtgoKCD0AACN9Uzc1"><img class="alignmiddleb" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SSMRtgoKCD0AACN9Uzc1/ATT9820444.jpg?et=tAjdau9Ceu%2CDGrJaaPUBDw&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span></a><span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRrQoKCD0AACkcXvw1"><img class="alignmiddleb" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SSMRrQoKCD0AACkcXvw1/ATT9820445.jpg?et=RUfCXU5Yk1Y1ujKHodRKzQ&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span></a><span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRowoKCD0AAC-vdRc1"><img class="alignmiddleb" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SSMRowoKCD0AAC-vdRc1/ATT9820446.jpg?et=ybgM7%2CrJAkmI5Le8ReGlTg&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span></a><span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRnAoKCD0AACd8VZg1"><img class="alignmiddleb" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SSMRnAoKCD0AACd8VZg1/ATT9820447.jpg?et=KbLOaoNlUdqphZCVWi1zyw&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span></a><span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRkwoKCD0AACFPQZY1"><img class="alignmiddleb" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SSMRkwoKCD0AACFPQZY1/ATT9820448.jpg?et=LEmAJ2Ycr5j9nsbuuENJHQ&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span></a><span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMRhwoKCD0AAC@Ob981"><img class="alignmiddleb" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SSMRhwoKCD0AAC@Ob981/ATT9820449.jpg?et=Em4UcN40%2Cn41Ns%2B31ERnzg&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span><span class="insertedphoto"></span></a><span class="insertedphoto"><br></span> <!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-19743964280384898852008-11-18T21:58:00.000+08:002008-11-19T02:58:34.010+08:00Bila Lelaki Benar-Benar Jatuh Cinta <span class="insertedphoto"><a href="http://nooruljrahman.multiply.com/photos/hi-res/upload/SSMQJwoKCD0AAASSwcQ1"><img class="alignleft" src="http://images.nooruljrahman.multiply.com/image/1/photos/upload/300x300/SSMQJwoKCD0AAASSwcQ1/83315374.jpg?et=6d6tym3pVqQIjj%2BcSeSlwA&nmid=0" border="0"></a></span>Bila lelaki benar-benar jatuh cinta dan setia pada kekasihnya dengan ikhlas, perubahan sikapnya amat mengejutkan. Hati lelaki yang dianggap keras selama ini, tiba-tiba secara semulajadi menjadi selembut kapas apabila sudah jatuh cinta dengan relanya.<br><br>Bahkan lelaki yang mabuk cinta sanggup berkorban dan buat apa sahaja untuk kekasihnya.<br><br>Sekeras manapun hati lelaki, ia akan mengalirkan air mata apabila hatinya dilukai. Untuk melihat lelaki menangis amatlah payah. Diantara tanda-tanda lelaki yang jatuh cinta dengan hebat ialah:<br><ol><li>Dia bersungguh-sungguh melakukan sesuatu untuk kekasihnya dengan rela bukan kerana terpaksa.</li><li>Dia sentiasa ingin menghiburkan kekasihnya dan berubah menjadi orang yang kuat bercakap.</li><li>Dia banyak menasihati kekasihnya kerana dia amat menyayangi kekasihnya.</li><li>Dia berusaha mengongkong kebebasan kekasihnya kerana perasaan cemburunya yang meluap-luap.</li><li>Dia sentiasa takut kehilangan kekasihnya.</li><li>Dia sentiasa mengawasi pergerakan kekasihnya kerana dia sentiasa berasa curiga.</li><li>Dia tidak suka ada lelakilain rapat dgn kekasihnya.</li><li>Dia mudah merasa cemburu dan sensitif apabila kekasihnya tidak menumpukan sepenuh perhatian kepadanya.</li><li>Adakalanya, dia seperti seorang anak kecil yang meminta perhatian kerana dia mahu kekasihnya melayannya lebih dari orang lain.</li><li>Dia menjadi orang yang paling rajin dan sanggup membantu kekasihnya melakukan apa saja.</li><li>Dia pandai merajuk hati kerana ingin dipujuk oleh kekasihnya.</li><li>Dia akan menggalabah apabila kekasihnya berjauhan daripadanya terlalu lama.</li><li>Dia sentiasa memastikan keselamatan kekasihnya.</li><li>Dia mementingkan kekasihnya daripada dirinya sendiri.</li><li>Dia kerap bertanya adakah kekasihnya mencintainya kerana dia merasa kasihnya lebih kuat daripada kekasihnya.</li><li>Dia tidak akan melayan perempuan lain yang tidak ada urusan penting dengannya.</li><li>Dia cuba meluangkan lebih banyak masa dengan kekasihnya walaupun terpaksa menunggu kekasihnya dengan sabar.</li><li>Dia membanggakan kekasihnya di depan orang lain.</li><li>Kalau ditinggalkan oleh kekasihnya, dia akan berasa serik dan tidak percaya dengan cinta perempuan lain, namun dia sentiasa mengharap kekasihnya kembali kepadanya.</li><li>Apabila timbul org ketiga, dia akan hilang akal dan sanggup berbuat apa saja untuk merebut kembali kekasihnya.</li><li>Dia menganggap kekasihnya sebagai orang yang paling dipercayainya dan sanggup menyerahkan harta walaupun nyawanya sendiri.</li><li>Dia tidak akan berlaku curang kepada kekasihnya namun jikalau dia berbuat demikian itu bererti hatinya belum 100 peratus mencintai kekasihnya.</li><li>Bukan semua lelaki sanggup menitiskan airmata hanya untuk seorang perempuan.<br><br>Tidak semestinya tepat, namun banyak yang tepat mengenainya.<img src="http://images.multiply.com/common/smiles/wink.png"><br>Cintailah lelaki...<img src="http://images.multiply.com/common/smiles/love.png"></li></ol> <!-- multiply:no_crosspost --><p class='multiply:no_crosspost'></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-10485524474256066582008-03-27T14:36:00.003+08:002008-03-27T14:56:59.477+08:00Apa itu Istidraj?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIn_hBierO1p-SAFkR_YBn2MO4w-CjC_Drlo0p5kmRxKy35zB1dn3PR3f7yqB_AO8yktwxa7YPdVcOQ6Ve70fUipYfxcAuiiQijcHRtd6JN0MgVSWszcEGDlRYgL5u18X9H1PK46yXAv2E/s1600-h/bismillah-black.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5182309480621705810" style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIn_hBierO1p-SAFkR_YBn2MO4w-CjC_Drlo0p5kmRxKy35zB1dn3PR3f7yqB_AO8yktwxa7YPdVcOQ6Ve70fUipYfxcAuiiQijcHRtd6JN0MgVSWszcEGDlRYgL5u18X9H1PK46yXAv2E/s400/bismillah-black.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Kenapa kadang kala kita lihat seseorang insan tu sentiasa dapat kegembiraan seperti dapat naik pangkat, murah rezeki dll sedangkan dia tu selalu melakukan kemungkaran?</span></div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;"><div><br />Jawabnya: Kekadang kala sesuatu anugerah Allah SWT kepada seseorang individu tu bukanlah sebab Allah sayangkan hambanya itu tetapi kerana Allah nak tengok sejauh mana keikhlasan orang itu. Allah nak tengok adakah hambanya itu akan menyedari bahawa Allah amat bermurah hati dengannya jadi sepatutnya dia bersyukur dan berubah menjadi baik. Tapi jika individu itu masih tidak reti bersyukur maka sesungguhnya dia telah menimbulkan kemurkaan Ar-Rahman.</div><br /><div></div><div>Teringat juga akan pada satu penjelasan ustazah sekolah rendah dulu. Ada member tanya kenapa kadang2 kita dah banyak kali berdoa tapi belum dapat apa yang diimpikan. Ustazah kata itu tandanya Allah sayang pada kita. Sebabnya Allah tahu kalau kita lambat atau belum dapat yang diimpikan, kita akan terus berdoa dan mengingati Ilahi. Sebenarnya Allah amat rindukan suara hamba-hambaNya merayu dan memujiNya. Kalau sekali berdoa terus dapat, kemungkinan besar lepas tu kita kita taksub dan lupa utk bersyukur pada yang Esa.<br /></div><br /><div>Tup-tup dapat pula artikel ni daripada seorang rakan. A very relevant and interesting article. Semoga Allah beratkan timbangan ibadah kita daripada timbangan dosa di Padang Mahsyar nanti. InsyaAllah…<br /></div><br /><div><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Apakah dia istidraj itu?<br /></span></strong>Ianya adalah pemberian nikmat Allah kepada manusia yang mana pemberian itu tidak diredhaiNya. Inilah yang dinamakan istidraj.<br /></div><br /><div>Rasullulah SAW bersabda: 'Apabila kamu melihat bahawa Allah ta'ala memberikan nikmat kepada hambanya yang selalu membuat maksiat (durhaka), ketahuilah bahawa orang itu telah diistidrajkan oleh Allah SWT.'<br />(Diriwayatkan oleh At-Tabrani, Ahmad dan Al-Baihaqi)<br /></div><br /><div>Tetapi, manusia yang durhaka dan sering berbuat maksiat yang terkeliru dengan pemikirannya merasakan bahawa nikmat yang telah datang kepadanya adalah kerana Allah berserta dan kasih dengan perbuatan maksiat mereka.<br /></div><br /><div>Masih ada juga orang ragu-ragu, kerana kalau kita hendak dapat kebahagian didunia dan akhirat kita mesti ikut jejak langkah Rasullulah SAW dan berpegang teguh pada agama Islam.<br /></div><br /><div>Tetapi bagaimana dengan ada orang yang sembahyang 5 waktu sehari semalam, bangun tengah malam bertahajjud, puasa bukan di bulan Ramadhan sahaja, bahkan Isnin, Khamis dan puasa sunat yang lain. Tapi, hidup mereka biasa sahaja. Ada yang susah juga. Kenapa? Dan bagaimana pula orang yang seumur hidup tak sembahyang, puasa pun tak pernah tapi rumahnya tersergam indah, kereta mewah menjalar, duit banyak, dia boleh hidup kaya dan mewah?<br /></div><br /><div>Bila kita tanya, apa kamu takut mati?<br />Katanya, alah, orang lain pun mati juga, kalau masuk neraka, ramai-ramai.<br />Tak kisahlah! Sombongnya mereka! Takburnya mereka!<br /></div><br /><div><strong><span style="color:#cc9933;">Rasullulah SAW naik ke langit bertemu Allah pun tak sombong, Nabi Sulaiman, sebesar-besar pangkatnya sehinggakan semua makhluk di muka bumi tunduk di bawah perintahnya pun tak sombong! Secantik-cantik Nabi Yusof dan semerdu suara Nabi Daud, mereka tak sombong. Bila sampai masa dan ketikanya, mereka tunduk dan sujud menyembah Allah.<br /></span></strong></div><br /><div>Manusia istidraj - Manusia yang lupa daratan. Walaupun berbuat maksiat, dia merasa Allah menyayanginya. Mereka memandang hina kepada orang yang beramal. 'Dia tu siang malam ke masjid, basikal pun tak mampu beli, sedangkan aku ke kelab malam pun dengan kereta mewah. Tak payah beribadat pun, rezeki datang mencurah-curah. Kalau dia tu sikit ibadat tentu boleh kaya macam aku, katanya sombong'. Sebenarnya, kadang-kadang Allah memberikan nikmat yang banyak dengan tujuan untuk menghancurkannya. Rasullulah s.a.w bersabda: 'Apabila Allah menghendaki untuk membinasakan semut, Allah terbangkan semua itu dengan dua sayapnya' (Kitab Nasaibul æIbad) Anai-anai, jika tidak bersayap, maka dia akan duduk diam di bawah batu atau merayap di celah-celah daun, tetapi jika Allah hendak membinasakannya, Allah berikan dia sayap. Lalu, bila sudah bersayap, anai-anai pun menjadi kelkatu. Kelkatu, bila mendapat nikmat (sayap), dia akan cuba melawan api. Begitu juga manusia, bila mendapat nikmat, cuba hendak melawan Allah swt.<br /></div><br /><div>Buktinya, Firaun. Nikmatnya tak terkira, tidak pernah sakit, bersin pun tidak pernah kerana Allah berikannya nikmat kesihatan. Orang lain selalu sakit, tapi Firaun tidak, orang lain mati, namun dia masih belum mati-mati juga, sampai rasa angkuh dan besar diri lantas mengaku dirinya tuhan. Tapi dengan nikmat itulah Allah binasakan dia.<br /></div><br /><div>Namrud, yang cuba membakar Nabi Ibrahim. Betapa besar pangkat Namrud? Dia begitu sombong dengan Allah, akhirnya menemui ajalnya hanya disebabkan seekor nyamuk masuk ke dalam lubang hidungnya.<br /></div><br /><div>Tidak ada manusia hari ini sekaya Qarun. Anak kunci gudang hartanya sahaja kena dibawa oleh 40 ekor unta. Akhirnya dia ditenggelamkan bersama-sama hartanya sekali akibat terlalu takbur. Jadi kalau kita kaya, jangan sangka Allah sayang, Qarun lagi kaya, akhirnya binasa juga.<br /></div><br /><div>Jadi, jika kita kaji dan fikir betul-betul, maka terjawablah segala keraguan yang mengganggu fikiran kita. Mengapa orang kafir kaya, dan orang yang berbuat maksiat hidup senang / mewah.<br /></div><br /><div>Pemberian yang diberikan oleh Allah pada mereka bukanlah yang diredhaiNya. Rupa-rupanya ianya adalah bertujuan untuk menghancurkannya. Untuk apa hidup ini tanpa keredhaanNya? Tetapi jangan pula ada orang kaya beribadat, masuk masjid dengan kereta mewah kita katakan itu istidraj.<br /></div><br /><div>Orang naik pangkat, istidraj. Orang-orang besar, istidraj. Jangan! Orang yang mengunakan nikmatnya untuk kebajikan untuk mengabdi kepada Allah bukan istidraj. Dan jangan pula kita tidak mahu kekayaan. Kalau hendak selamat, hidup kita mesti ada pegangan.<br /></div><br /><div>Bukan kaya yang kita cari, juga bukan miskin yang kita cari. Tujuan hidup kita adalah mencari keredaan Allah. Bagaimana cara untuk menentukan nikmat yang diredhai Allah? Seseorang itu dapat menyedari hakikat yang sebenarnya tentang nikmat yang diterimanya itu ialah apabila dia bersyukur nikmatnya.<br /></div><br /><div>Dia akan mengunakan pemberian ke jalan kebaikan dan sentiasa redha dan ikhlas mengabdikan diri kepada Allah. Maka segala limpah kurnia yang diperolehi itu adalah nikmat pemberian yang diredhai Allah. Bila tujuan hidup kita untuk mencari keredhaan Allah, niscaya selamatlah kita di dunia dan akhirat.</span></div>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-11035793915099005332008-03-27T14:27:00.004+08:002008-03-27T14:57:34.595+08:00A Touching Story... Mainly for Parents<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjal1uZgqsjQSWaqqIS5BVQssw9K4QAzANyMLyxSrv553vCVp8DOEUZ6fjEA4WBhTYt5faq7jDZPt20kNWgQXxqhoaeZhZ9SNSQgBfy8-pB1x7P4GdOdt-G4GrIa7iUGiOyXBRIDJM9AhRF/s1600-h/42-18206147.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5182306383950285378" style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjal1uZgqsjQSWaqqIS5BVQssw9K4QAzANyMLyxSrv553vCVp8DOEUZ6fjEA4WBhTYt5faq7jDZPt20kNWgQXxqhoaeZhZ9SNSQgBfy8-pB1x7P4GdOdt-G4GrIa7iUGiOyXBRIDJM9AhRF/s400/42-18206147.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.<br /></div></span><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;"><strong>SON</strong>: 'Daddy, may I ask you a question?'<br /><strong>DAD</strong>: 'Yeah sure, what it is?' replied the man.<br /><strong>SON</strong>: 'Daddy, how much do you make a day?'<br /><strong>DAD</strong>: 'That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?' the dad said angrily.<br /><strong>SON</strong>: 'I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make a day?'<br /><strong>DAD</strong>: 'If you must know, I make 50 Dollars a day.'<br /><strong>SON</strong>: 'Oh,' the little boy replied, with his head down.<br /><strong>SON</strong>: 'Daddy, may I please borrow 35 Dollars?'<br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">The father was furious, 'If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior.'<br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.<br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions. How dare he ask such questions only to get some money? After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that 35 dollars and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door.<br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">'Are you asleep, son?' He asked.<br />'No daddy, I'm awake,' replied the boy.<br />'I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier' said the dad.<br />'It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you. Here's the 35 dollars you asked for.'<br />The little boy sat straight up, smiling. 'Oh, thank you daddy!' He yelled.<br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up notes. The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father.<br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">'Why do you want more money if you already have some?' the father grumbled.<br />'Because I didn't have enough, but now I do,' the little boy replied.<br />'Daddy, I have 50 dollars now. Can I buy a day of your time?'<br />'Please don't go to work tomorrow. I would like to be with you the whole day'<br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.<br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.<br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Do remember to share that 50 Dollars worth of your time with someone you love. If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days. But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family. </span></div>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-47646741653027067532008-03-27T14:15:00.004+08:002008-03-27T14:58:15.241+08:00Cium Anak Dapat Pahala<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgExRpnPo6V20t-xOFJI07IuYS5h35vRPrTjhj9iziUpoMuQPUb-KagrzsZQAsqD4YrnivuFAJ6C2HtaZTzikS7-WAh-h04ZRVHLVyGdo-XpVzBuWXNZlwz_WLTZezeywQa7xta-hzuR5YQ/s1600-h/42-19295611.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5182303648056117810" style="CURSOR: hand" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgExRpnPo6V20t-xOFJI07IuYS5h35vRPrTjhj9iziUpoMuQPUb-KagrzsZQAsqD4YrnivuFAJ6C2HtaZTzikS7-WAh-h04ZRVHLVyGdo-XpVzBuWXNZlwz_WLTZezeywQa7xta-hzuR5YQ/s400/42-19295611.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Keistimewaan yang bakal diperolehi apabila anak-anak anda boleh digelar kanak-kanak atau kupu-kupu syurga. Barangsiapa yang mengembirakan anak perempuannya, darjatnya seumpama orang yang sentiasa menangis kerana takutkan Allah. </span></div><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;"></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Orang yang menangis takutkan Allah diharamkan oleh Allah akan api neraka ke atas tubuhnya.<br /></div></span><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Ciumlah anakmu kerana pahala setiap ciuman itu dibalas dengan satu darjat syurga.<br /></span></strong>Nisbah di antara dua darjat ialah 500 darjat. Syurga itu ialah sebuah kampung kesenangan, tiada masuk ke dalamnya melainkan orang yang menyukai kanak-kanak. </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Barangsiapa keluar ke pekan Muslim dan membeli barang-barang dan kembali ke rumah dengan buah tangan untuk anak-anaknya, nescaya mendapat rahmat daripada Allah dan tidak diseksa di Akhirat kelak.<br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Muliakan anak-anak dengan mengajar mereka adab dan ilmu agama.<br /></span></strong>Barangsiapa memuliakan anak-anaknya dalam keadaan jahil dia turut menanggung tiap-tiap dosa yang dilakukan oleh anaknya itu dan barangsiapa membekalkan anaknya itu turut diperolehinya.<br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Aqrak pernah terlihat Nabi SAW mencium cucu baginda Hassan. </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Aqrak berkata; "Anakku sepuluh orang banyaknya, namun tiada seorang pun yang pernah aku cium." </span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Sabda Nabi SAW; "Orang yang tidak menyayangi tidak pula akan disayangi."<br /></div></span><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Barangsiapa ke pasar dan membeli sesuatu barang untuk ahli keluarganya dan dia memikulnya ke rumah; pahalanya seperti dia memikul sedekah untuk orang yang sangat berhajat. Hendaklah mendahulukan anak perempuan daripada anak lelaki. Maka barangsiapa menyukakan anak perempuan seolah-olah dia memerdekakan anak Nabi Ismail.<br /></span></div><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Seorang lelaki bertanya; "Ya Rasulullah, kepada siapakah harus aku berbakti? "<br />Jawab baginda; "Berbaktilah kepada ibu bapamu."<br />Kata lelaki itu lagi; "Ibu bapaku sudah tiada lagi."<br />Sabda Nabi SAW; "Kalau begitu berbaktilah kepada anakmu, ibubapa berhak terhadap dirimu dan anakmu pula berhak ke atas dirimu." </span></div>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-74786256124932406952008-03-27T14:12:00.005+08:002008-03-27T14:58:37.517+08:00Regular Health Mistakes<span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">All of us make little health mistakes that cause damage to our bodies in the long run - simply because we are unaware we are doing something wrong. Here are some of the most common mistakes made by many of us.<br /></span><br /></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Crossing our legs</span><br /></strong>Do you cross your legs at your knees when sitting? Although we may believe that this is the lady-like elegant way to sit, sitting this way cuts down circulation to your legs. If you don't want varicose veins to mar the beauty of your legs and compromise your health, uncross your legs every time you realise you have one knee on top of the other. The best way to sit is to simply place both legs together on the floor, balancing your weight equally. If you feel like changing position, instead of crossing your legs, simply move both legs together to one side. As an alternative, you could also consider crossing your legs loosely at the ankles. This is a classically elegant way to sit, and is far better for your legs and your health than sitting with your legs crossed at your knees.<br /><strong></strong></span><br /></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Not changing our toothbrush</span><br /></strong>How often ! do you change your toothbrush? Most of us wait until most of the bristles have either fallen off, or are in such bad shape that we'd be embarrassed to pull out our brush in public. However, since not many of us need to pull out our brush in public, we carry on with our frayed one until we lose it. Replace your toothbrush often. Damaged bristles can harm the enamel, and don't massage your gums well. If you find brushing your teeth a pain like I do, but know you must do it, you might as well be doing it right. Imagine going through the annoyance of brushing your teeth twice a day only to find out that you're damaging your enamel every time you clean your t! eeth. Also, use a brush with soft bristles unless your dentist has advised otherwise.<br /></span><br /></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Eating out often<br /></span></strong>There are oils that are high in cholesterol, and oils that cause little harm and are better for your heart. However, no matter how light<br />the oil is, it is never a good idea to eat too much of it. Avoid fried foods. Remember that in all probability your favorite Indian food<br />restaurant throws a huge, HUGE chunk of butter in a tiny bowl of dal. Rita, who worked in the kitchen of a 5 star hotel, was shocked when she saw the cook chop a 500gm butter slab in half, and throw half into a Paneer Makhani dish. No wonder the customers left licking their fingers. And no wonder they felt so stuffed and heavy afterwards. Limit outdoor eating unless you know that you're getting served light and healthy food.<br /></span><br /></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Skipping breakfast</span><br /></strong>Never, ever skip breakfast. Remember, when you wake up in the morning it's been around 10-12 hours since your last meal. Your body needs food now, more than at any other time. Eat a heavy breakfast. You will then be busy through the day, and the calories will get expended quickly. If you are trying to diet, eat a light dinner. Here are some more common health mistakes we make. Being informed and making a few changes can help make us feel a whole lot better.<br /><strong></strong></span><br /></span><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;color:#ff6600;"><strong>High heels<br /></strong></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;">High heels sure look great, but they're murder for your back. This however doesn't mean you should steer clear of stilettos. Wear them, but not when you know you will be walking around a lot. Wear them when going out for lunch or dinner - when the only walking you will be doing is to your car, to the table, and back. Avoid high heels when you are going somewhere on foot. If you are constantly tempted to wear your heels, take a good look at your flats. Is there something about them you dislike? Invest in a new pair of beautiful flats or shoes with a low heel. Buy something you love, that you will enjoy wearing. If possible, get a matching bag. You will then enjoy your flats as much as you do your heels.<br /></span><br /></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Sleeping on a soft bed</span><br /></strong>You don't have to sleep on the floor be kind to your back, but do make sure you have a firm mattress. Although a mattress on springs is soft and lovely to sink into, it's bad for your back. If you already have an old bed with springs, you don't need to invest in a new one - simply get a thick wooden plank put over the springs, and place the mattress on the plank. Similarly, if your mattress is old and lumpy, throw it out and get a new one. Your neck and your back will thank you. The same rule applies to sofas. If you will be spending hours on a sofa, get a firm yet comfortable one. Sofas you completely sink into are not the best idea.<br /></span><br /></span><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Pillows</span><br /></strong>No matter how comfortable sleeping with ten cushions is, have pity on your neck and resist. Sleep with one pillow, and make sure it is not too thick. If your pillow gets lumpy, discard it and go for a new one. Get a thin pillow if you sleep on your stomach, and something a little thicker if you sleep on your back, to give your neck adequate support.<br /></span><br /></span><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><strong><span style="color:#ff6600;">Not exercising<br /></span></strong>So all of us know we should exercise more, but many of us don't. This is a health mistake we consciously make! And why is that? Simply because we refuse to admit the damage we are causing to our bodies by not working out. A number of people only start working out once they've experienced a warning signal. Don't wait for a heart attack to strike before you decide to opt for a lifestyle change. Make the change now. You don't need to train for the marathon to be in top shape. Half an hour of brisk walking three to four times a week will make a world of difference to your health. You could then increase this to forty minutes, four times a week - and you're all set.! If you haven't exercise for a week, you're making a mistake.</span></span>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6583091974570578044.post-20591904789697464732008-02-19T18:52:00.003+08:002008-02-19T18:58:15.173+08:00Lima Cara Memilih Sahabat<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUvfNaMR41RKLyTkSULQBRjbee5FCnodcBeDUCuMU4CImIZaa7GNhW3EeSuA0pKq9kDm7m82nD7PVtGljDhaxBVJRcu3TlqZplvEfcK-PTSjQrA0XVWAF4yYsF7D8m-OgYZBu8sH8wnSL4/s1600-h/905748_79565288.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5168643596567350690" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUvfNaMR41RKLyTkSULQBRjbee5FCnodcBeDUCuMU4CImIZaa7GNhW3EeSuA0pKq9kDm7m82nD7PVtGljDhaxBVJRcu3TlqZplvEfcK-PTSjQrA0XVWAF4yYsF7D8m-OgYZBu8sH8wnSL4/s400/905748_79565288.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><div><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">NASIHAT yang boleh diikuti dalam membina persahabatan ialah sebagaimana pesanan al-Qamah (seorang sahabat Rasulullah saw) kepada anaknya : </span></div><ol><li><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Pertama, pilihlah sahabat yang suka melingungi sahabatnya, dia adalah hiasan diri kita dan jika kita dalam kekurangan nafkah, dia suka mencukupi keperluan.<br /><br /></span></li><li><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Kedua, pilihlah seorang sahabat yang apabila engkau menghulurkan tangan untuk memberikan jasa baik atau bantuanmu, dia suka menerima dengan rasa terharu, jikalau ia melihat kebaikan yang ada pada dirimu, dia suka menghitung-hitungkan (menyebutnya).<br /><br /></span></li><li><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Ketiga, pilihlah seorang sahabat yang apabila engkau menghulurkan tangan untuk memberikan jasa baik atau bantuanmu, ia suka menerima dengan rasa terharu dan dianggap sangat berguna, dan jika ia mengetahui mengenai keburukan dirimu ia suka menutupinya.<br /><br /></span></li><li><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Keempat, pilihlah sahabat yang jikalau engkau meminta sesuatu daripadanya, pasti ia memberi, jikalau engkau diam, dia mula menyapamu dulu dan jika ada sesuatu kesukaran dan kesedihan yang menimpa dirimu, dia suka membantu dan meringankanmu serta menghiburkanmu.<br /><br /></span></li><li><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Kelima, sahabat yang jikalau engkau berkata, ia suka membenarkan ucapan dan bukan selalu mempercayainya saja. Jikalau engkau mengemukakan sesuatu persoalan yang berat dia suka mengusahakannya dan jika engkau berselisih denganya, dia suka mengalah untuk kepentinganmu.<br /><br /></span></li></ol><p><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Dalam memilih sahabat kita hendaklah memilih sahabat yang baik agar segala matlamat dan hasrat untuk memperjuangkan Islam dapat dilaksanakan bersam-sama sahabat yang mulia.<br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Sucikanlah 4 hal dengan 4 perkara : "Wajahmu dengan linangan air mata keinsafan, Lidahmu basah dengan berzikir kepada Penciptamu, Hatimu takut dan gementar kepada kehebatan Rabbmu,.. dan dosa-dosa yang silam disulami dengan taubat kepada Dzat yang Memiliki mu."<br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">"Sampaikan! lah walau satu ayat" al hadis LAA HAULAWALA QUWWATAILLA BILLAH<br /></span></p><p><span style="font-family:trebuchet ms;font-size:85%;">Sahabat yang baik adalah lebih mahal dari segunung emas permata.</span></p>signora di setahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06575969837761299665noreply@blogger.com0